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Qualities Needed in Parenting
Qualities Needed in Parenting
From
Children of Fast-Track Parents Raising self-sufficient and Confident Children in an Achievement-Oriented World, Andree Aelion Brooks; Penguin Books, NY, 1989, page 28. Used with permission, quoted in
The Relaxed Parent by Tim Smith, p. 9
Qualities Needed to Succeed In a Chosen Career | Qualities Needed to Meet the Needs of a Growing Child |
A constant striving for perfection | A tolerance for repeated errors |
Mobility | Stability |
A need to be free from time constraints to focus | Plenty of time for family activities on work |
Impatience | Patience |
A goal-oriented attitude toward the project at hand | Emphasis on process, surprises and change as the child matures |
A total commitment to yourself | A total commitment to others |
A stubborn self-will | A softness and willingness to bend |
Efficiency | A tolerance for chaos |
A belief that succeeding must always be the top priority | An understanding that failure promotes growth |
A controlling nature that enjoys directing others | A desire to promote independence in others even if their ways are not your ways |
A concern about image | A relaxed acceptance of embarrassment |
Firmness | Gentleness |
A feeling that nobody is as smart as you | A true respect for your child's abilities free from comparison with your own |
A preference for concise information | Able to listen patiently while children talk |
An exploitation of others | Able to put another's needs ahead of one's own |