Changing Your Name

There it was in the society pages of none other than the venerable New York Times, arbiter of social propriety. On May 7, Michael Flaherty, a city planner, wed Valerie Silverman, a medical student, and husband and wife combined their names to produce "Flaherman." Even the editor of the Times society page could not recall seeing such a postmodern hybrid before. (Hey, Arnold and Maria! Have you ever considered "Schwarzenshriver"?)

Why did they do it? "We wanted to share a name without being sexist or hyphenating two names," says Michael. The couple, who just a few months ago rejected "Silverty," say that their children will not be "Flaherbabies," but Flahermans. And, they say, they never even considered going ultra-politically correct with "Flaherperson."